So two weeks ago at church, one part of the sermon really jumped out at me. But of course, I didn't bother sharing it because I thought, who is going to listen to me?
Well, last week, one of the main topics was to share what God has been teaching us through church, our private devotions, just in life!
And that's really why I created this blog, to share my Adventure that God is taking me on.
So please, pull up a chair, tune in and bear with me for a couple minutes.
If I tread on toes, I'm sorry but I'm not! Because this is something I think this is an issue we need to address as Christians.
Our words!
Ephesians 4:29 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths but only such as is good for building others up, as is fits the occasions, that it may give grace to those who hear.
Okay, so the other day some of my friends and I were talking and the topic of swearing came up. One of my friends said, "If the swear word is needed, then I'm going to use it."
I honestly didn't know what to say! I mean, swearing bothers me. I don't want to fill my head with this crap. And I don't think we ever need to use cuss words. They degrade us and others.
But like I said, I didn't now what to say, so I said nothing.
These thoughts were in my head Sunday as I went to church. The pastor (who also happens to be my dad!) was talking and to be honest, I don't even remember what the main topic was. But this popped out at me, because I had been struggling with what to tell my friends.
This is what he said: "Our speech should draw people TO Christ NOT away from him.
So this even goes beyond cussing!
What about ...
* Gossip?
*Hate talk?
*Joking that hurts?
*Prideful words?
Our words are powerful!
James 3:4-5a Look at the ships also: though they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are guided by a very small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs. So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things...
Our tongues are small parts of our bodies, yet they are so, so powerful!
Please, please, please know that I'm in no way judging you! I deal and struggle with these things to!
James 3:7-8 For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so. Does a spring pour forth from the same opening both fresh and salt water? Can a fig tree, my brothers, bear olives, or a grapevine produce figs? Neither can a salt pond yield fresh water.
So you may be asking, Big deal! I don't do that!
Let's switch gears people!
I, like many people I know, have Facebook. You probably clicked this link from my Facebook share. I love how it allows me to connect with my friends and family who are all over the USA.
Facebook can also show the double-sidedness of some people!
For example:
Bob's talking about Dave to a friend who doesn't know him-
I absolutely cannot stand that man! He is so arrogant and acts like he knows everything! Ugh!
Bob's Facebook post to Dave -
Oh Dave! You're my best friend! Thanks for the wonderful night watching the game ...
Wait ... I thought you couldn't stand the guy? Isn't that a bit double-sided?
YES!
I know some people see no problem with it. But the truth is, it reflects who we are!
Luke 6:45 The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.
When we say and do these things, specifically as Christians, we are reflecting Jesus!
I went to Winter Jam last Sunday and the man who gave the gospel message talked about seeing a special type of photo. It was supposed to pop a 3-D image. But he couldn't see it. He had to take a little white card, hold in front of his face, pull it away then the image popped out.
He explained this is the way a lot of nonbelievers view God. Their picture of him is like the pre 3-D photo - distorted and ugly.
If Christians treat others like that, then their God must treat others like that.
NO! NO! NO! Let this NEVER BE! Our lives should so easily pop the love of our God! Because God is love!
Another reason I don't like Facebook (and for that matter any social media site) is the amount of posts with swearing! It shocks me just how many Christians post, share and like stuff with cuss words!
Like the passage above says out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. So what we like, share, post, tweet, etc. is showing what's in our hearts!
Now, I know a lot of us (myself included) sometimes miss the swear word. And if that's the case, PLEASE LET ME KNOW! Then I can message you when a post does have a cuss word!
But I've seen some comments, (which means they write it themselves!) from friends who claim to be followers of Jesus, that have cuss words. Now that really bothers me! Because one moment we're posting a Bible verse and the next we're commenting with cuss words? Again, double-sided.
So how do we avoid being like that? Well, I think Philippians stated it best:
Philippians 4:8 Finally brother, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable. if anything is excellent or praise worthy think about these things.
What our minds dwell on is what we fill our hearts with. What we fill our hearts with is what comes out of our mouths.
I think we need to watch what we say and do online as Christians. It reflects on what others view Jesus as. And we need to watch the things that come out of our mouth!
I want to challenge you today. Here it is:
Make your words and actions draw people to Jesus.
How do you do that?
Pray: Ask the Lord for help.
Fill your mind with Philippians 4:8 things: This may mean some of the things you watch, read, and listen to may need to be cut. I know, I know! Bite your tongue, Anna! But seriously! If it isn't honoring to God, is it really worth holding on too?
Read your Bible: Again, it's a Church answer. But honestly, this is the stuff that is Philippians 4:8 material people!
If you need help finding what I'm going to call 4:8 Material to center your mind on God, please comment! I'm willing to help! And if you comment, I'll pray for you! It's rough, I know, to watch your tongue. But I also know that God will help! Let's pray for our words to be honoring to him!
Psalm 19:14 Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O LORD, my rock and my redeemer.
Lord, help my words to reflect your love for people. Let me NEVER be double sided. Let my heart please you in everything and let the overflow from my mouth be for your glory and to draw people to you and not away. Amen
